Two things that make me think I got a voyeur fetish
First, this day tuko bed na wife tunataka kulala. Upstairs neighbors started humping and the woman gets loud! I ask my wife kama anasikia, she said no. Switch off our phones on silent and clearly now we can hear the clapping and woman going intermittently “ahh!!” I don’t know where the instant boner came from.… I railed my wife proper. I still finished before the upstairs guy.
Second one is whenever my friend (F) tells me her personal stuff, especially stuff touching on her sexual life with her husband, I found I increasingly want to hear it in detail. I don’t want her to gloss over it with euphemisms, ati “tumekosana so jana tuli do kama tumenyamaziana”… I want detail: where were you, how did you feel, did you cry? tell it like it’s a central part of the story! She obviously says it’s none of my business but I think she enjoys the thought that someone wants details…