u/Trick_Leadership_558

I am allowed access to my bf's phone, he left it open to a text convo between his and their kid's mother, they are basically raising their granddaughter... there has been issues between me, bm, and him because of his alcoholism. Recently, after several months of them going back and forth about him being drunk, and being cut off from granddaughter, me standing my ground, BM told my bf, "I can rent a cabin, me and you (bf) should go for a couple nights," with no mention of her husband or myself going to join them. I'm not bringing it up, but it's driving me insane when she calls him 20x a day... WIBTA, if I bought it up??