Do people actually find meaningful connections here?
F4M.. Does this sub actually help anyone find a partner?I tried posting here for myself as well but experienced was not really good.
I posted last week and received a lot of DMs, but honestly, none of them worked. In some cases, people did start conversations. They had clearly read everything I mentioned in my post and initially seemed to agree with my situation and expectations. Some even wrote huge messages, analyzing every single point, saying things like “I connect with this” or “I understand that.”
But after talking for a day or two, either their replies became very slow or they eventually said something like, “I thought I could manage your terms, but unfortunately I can’t.” Which is fair, but it ends up wasting both people’s time.
My main point is—if someone has clearly mentioned what they want in their post, and you read everything, feel that it aligns with what you want, or say that you connect with it, then what changes after just a day or two of talking? I’m seeing people close the door saying the exact same things they initially claimed they were okay with. That’s what I genuinely don’t understand.
So I genuinely want to know has anyone actually found something meaningful through this sub? Let’s discuss.
FYI: NSFW profile guys don’t DM me, genuinely not interested.