Is this weird?
My boyfriend and I have taken many explicit photos and videos during intimacy and I’ve taken/shared several of myself with him past and presently. However, tonight I caught him with his phone up while I was facing the other direction and then heard him set it back down really quick. Afterwards, when I asked what he was doing on his phone he just dismissed the question and started talking about something else. I brought it up again and said I just want to know if you’re taking pictures and I don’t appreciate being lied to. He denied taking photos but got super defensive about it and turned it around on me to start an argument about how I’m always framing him to look like a creep. I had forgotten until now but I’ve also caught him before on his phone and the flash went off but even then he adamantly denied it, saying if anything he “may have accidentally hit the camera” while swiping his phone unlocked.
Am I underreacting by not pushing it? I’m not normally shy about photos, for me it’s just strictly the lack of my knowledge and consent on it?? My gut instinct is telling me he’s lying and that he’s absolutely taking photos or videos without me knowing. It feels icky but I almost feel like I’m not allowed to be mad or upset because I’ve allowed these things to happen before so what’s the difference?