how to convince my dad to let me study abroad
im in the 12th grade. grew up my whole life in dubai. basically financial instability arised so we had to move back last year and i got put into jee trap, 10 hours coaching they beat and stuff i mean the studies arent bad but i pretty much hate everything else.
getting 150+ in jee mains mocks (60-80+ in maths and rest r mid but whatever) and i love mathematics, but i seriously don’t want to do cse and end up working a desk job, i want to do core / maths heavy field like electrical mechE or mechatronics engineering
i absolutely hate my school and pretty much my life right now. i feel like if i just get out of this environment itll be better
whenever i try to talk about it to my dad he says i cant face anything in life and i should basically stop being a bitch when its really taking a toll on my mental, i cant deal with this new system where they cram everything into your throat and want u to spit it out
i researched quite a lot of courses and universities in germany, and a few friends and i made delusional plans to all convince our parents and get into the same city (not sure if it’ll work )
my dad is already hell bent on sending me to NIT or VIT or SRM or just any indian college and everytime the topic of college comes up he just talks about placement. it just feels like whenever someone brings up engineering its all about placement placement placement like i want to learn mechanical because its interesting 😭
every family meeting he says my son is getting xxx marks in jee mains mocks im gonna send him to this college like i dont want to go there bro
i asked him about germany before and he said yes his close friend’s brother is settled there and education is free blabka but now suddenly when i started studying seriously for jee hes saying no
why do so many people here keep suggesting bachelors in india and masters abroad? what if i dont want to do a masters?
how do i convince my father again please
my_qualifications: 91% in 10th