u/True_Twist5343

Hey I’m 23M and I’m in a relationship with this girl for 2.5 years so now i really need to know about this cause at first I thought she was joking, but she was completely serious. She says she wouldn’t be upset, and apparently her friend is open to it too and when i said straight NO then she was like “ lets go for threesome”

Now I’m stuck wondering what’s actually going on here.

Would you see this as genuine openness, a test of the relationship or a massive red flag?

(Genuinely need a girl’s perspective also if this post reaches you)