Girls girl
After almost 1.5 years of being in a relationship it has come to an end. Saying I am broken would be an understatement. I saw my future with this person; a family, achieving our goals and building a meaningful life together.
All that came tumbling down when I found out that he cheated. I confronted him and decided that this wasn't for me anymore.
What kills me is the fact that in their conversations with the other lady, he would make it clear how he can't see her at certain times coz I was around. And the girl would abide. They had even gotten to a point of Sharing nudes and having late night video calls to experience each other some more.
Of course even with no evidence I knew something was off and that's when my fears were confirmed. I have fought my demons with the guy and said my peace. But sasa swali yangu ni yes the man owes me loyalty and not the girl.
But how do you as a woman know there is someone else involved and still go on and entertain the guy and push for your side thing to keep happening? Na hata in this situation it's just sex no money involved juu he wasn't giving her that from all the conversations I saw.
:Don't you want someone that is just yours?
: How does it sit with you mtu akikuambia Leo usicall bibi Ako around?
: Do you really think the situation trough ama it's just for the moment?
: and many more questions I am trying to understand.
To the best of my knowledge I have never been a side chick so I would want to know.