How do you know if you have a crush on someone or if you’re just bored?
So I met this girl at a club about two weeks ago. We had a bit of a misunderstanding, and she thought I had a 40-minute walk home, so she invited me back to hers.
We talked for a bit and then watched a movie. She was resting her head on my shoulder, and we were holding hands. Earlier that night, I’d given her a few cigarettes, and she asked if she could take me on a date. I couldn’t really tell if she was being serious or joking, though.
The next morning, I left while she was still asleep because she had plans later, and I felt a bit awkward staying. She didn’t seem to mind me staying, though.
It’s been about two weeks, and I still can’t figure out how I feel about her. I barely think about her, but sometimes I find myself thinking back to that night. I do want to see her again, and I’d potentially be up for a date, but I don’t know if that’s because I actually like her or if I’m just curious about the whole situation.
We study at the same place, but I rarely see her around, so I don’t really get the chance to talk to her and get to know her better.
I can’t tell if I have a little crush on her, just want to be friends, miss the intimacy, or am only interested because I don’t know if she actually liked me.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? How did you figure out how you actually felt?