u/TwinkleLittleSky

Hello! I’m 21 and I’m studying theatre in the states, this next fall ( September - December ) I’ll be staying in Thessaloniki with a group from my college. I’ve been to Europe before, but not this side. I was wondering what the general vibe towards tourists/students from abroad are?

I also had a few directed questions. Is there a bus pass I could get? Or do I have to pay every time I use a bus? Are train rides worth it for short distances? I want to go on a few train rides, but I’m unsure if I should save them for longer trips to other cities/countries. Which, what bordering countries do you recommend visiting? I plan on going to at least Istanbul.

I was also curious about the nightlife/clubbing/bar scene. I heard it’s different from how Americans go clubbing and I don’t want to disrespect the culture 🙏 so what is clubbing like? Are there some unspoken rules I should take into account before making a fool of myself? I’ve also read that Greece is very forward thinking with LGBTQ+, are there gay bars/areas I could check out?

I also heard that clothing is different and I don’t want to seem too out of place, how appropriate are cotton shorts and sweatpants there? I mainly dress for comfort and I’m not too sure that is the vibe lol Am I gonna have to start wearing jeans and nice shirts everyday?

Thanks!!

So, I’m NB21 and I recently started dating my boyfriend M20 and he’s sexually active. I’ve discovered with him that I really do enjoy being sexual with him and touching him/him touching me. The thing is, I’ve always identified myself as ace/ace adjacent since middle school. I’ve never really experienced anything sexual with another person before so I’m very new to all of this. I feel very sexual and sexually open with my boyfriend, but by myself I’ve never masturbated before. Yes, I’ve touched myself, but I’ve never came. Touching myself doesn’t come naturally and I’m totally okay with that. I have gotten horny by myself, but again, never felt the need to cum.

Why I’m posting here today is because my boyfriend says I should make myself cum first before he does it for me. But I have no interest (as of right now) to make myself cum. It sounds way more appealing to me that he makes me cum rather than myself. Is this weird? Should I try and make myself cum just to experience it?? I’m in this weird state where I have no idea if I’m asexual or not. Is there a thing where I feel sexual with my partner but not alone? Should I learn to be sexual by myself to know if I like it ??? I’m confused and I don’t know what to think.