u/Ultralightbeam24

Long story short. I started T in late 2024. I started looking good, and my voice started to drop. I changed my name. Had a (botched) top surgery. I felt great.

My family cried and told me I was making the wrong decision. I wasn’t accepted in society and my only alive parent, my Dad, blocked me when I told him I am trans. I was in the worst relationship with a trans girl who was abusing me, and kept making snide comments about my hips being wide or other similar comments.

I detransitioned completely this January.

Now, I have moved to a small Welsh valley and people aren’t accepting of trans people. My family still tells everyone my name is *dead name*. I am struggling. It feels so heavy. So hard to breathe clearly, to think clearly and to be happy. I want to transition again so badly, but I fear the loneliness will eat me up again.

Sorry, I just had to rant somewhere. I’m struggling, and I have nobody to speak to about this because they’ll cut me off.

Long story short. I started T in late 2024. I started looking good, and my voice started to drop. I changed my name. Had a (botched) top surgery. I felt great.

My family cried and told me I was making the wrong decision. I wasn’t accepted in society and my only alive parent, my Dad, blocked me when I told him I am trans. I was in the worst relationship with a trans girl who was abusing me, and kept making snide comments about my hips being wide or other similar comments.

I detransitioned completely this January.

Now, I have moved to a small Welsh valley and people aren’t accepting of trans people. My family still tells everyone my name is *dead name*. I am struggling. It feels so heavy. So hard to breathe clearly, to think clearly and to be happy. I want to transition again so badly, but I fear the loneliness will eat me up again.

Sorry, I just had to rant somewhere. I’m struggling, and I have nobody to speak to about this because they’ll cut me off.

Buyer here, that has everything in place. I have paid for completion fees, singed all contracts, searches are all back and mortgage balance ready to be requested at exchange.

Other side’s solicitors are not providing us with a completion date at all. Last week we provided them with this Friday as a completion date, but we have heard nothing at all from the other side. What can I do to get this through any faster please? Both sides are ready!

EDIT: FTB buyer of an empty property, seller moved into a new home months ago.

What are people’s experiences buying in historic mining areas please? There is a mine entry about 4 streets away from the house I am in the process of buying, and the solicitor said a coal mining search is likely to be requested by the lender. Thank you.