u/UnfairTreat9235

(if you can't be kind or helpful pls just scroll on)

I don't want our 12yo daughter attending sleepovers if men or older brothers will be present. I know women can groom too so I'm not a fan of any kinda of sleepovers unless I know the person very very well. And even then.

I shut down when I try to message him about it. What useful things can I say when he's not interested in listening to me, and mostly seems to want to either make me feel bad or get his way, or both.

I know apparently it's "not all men" but it's every woman. Every woman I know, including me, has a story of abuse or assault, many of which were CSA.