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Wwyd if your LC-ME/CFS boyfriend wants to give up?

My (31F) boyfriend (40M) has been suffering from LC for 4 years now. It has destroyed his quality of life, he cannot work, and he is now in financial ruin. Losing his place to live because he can’t afford rent, he doesn’t keep up with friends since he got sick, and essentially only finds happiness when being with his 5 year old daughter.

He told me last night that he doesn’t want to live anymore and I am in shambles. I want him to keep trying, I don’t want him to end his life. But he keeps telling me that it isn’t fair to ask him to keep suffering anymore when there’s next to no chance he will ever get better.

From folks in this community who have LC-ME/CFS… can you tell me what you would do? Or what you’d want your partner to do? Am i cruel for asking him to keep going, like he says?

I love him so much, I don’t want to lose him. Moving in with me isn’t an option because I have two roommates (and I’m not in a financial position to move out with him and cover all bills), and he has his daughter over when is he able to look after her. I am at a loss 😭 My heart is breaking. 💔

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u/Unfair_Bag9857 — 12 days ago
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TLOAS Mash Ups

Okay as it states… give me your best Mash Ups. Can be two songs from this album alone, or one song from this album + another one.

The rules: ONLY TWO SONGS per mashup.
Give a sentence explaining why you chose.

I’ll go first:

  1. Honey + Mean

(Between the mean girls in the bathroom, and the message of Mean, I think this would be cute!)

  1. Ruin the Friendship + Dorothea

(Talk about someone really knowing you from your hometown, and wishing you two had ever done something about that!)

  1. CANCELLED! + Vigilante Shit

(Go off Taylor! Give no fucks and be unapologetically ruthless about it. Love it.)

*also I’m new to reddit and apparently Karma points are a thing? Could I ask for a few upvotes so I can start getting some more Karma? 💞🥹

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u/Unfair_Bag9857 — 12 days ago