Husband told me I gained weight
Hi Im [33F] and my husband is [45M]
So we just had a further discussion about our intimacy life (sex) earlier. When I said further because we talked about this the other night about its been bothering me that husband is only having sex with me during weekend and its I felt like its a chore for him every weekend and I dont feel like its spontaneous anymore.
We had this problem before where he perks off a lot and watch porn. He stopped for awhile like 1 month and was able to finish inside me for that month.
Now I really pushed him why were still having this problem. He gave first a reason then pushed him to say it.
He told me that we need to lose some weight.
I clarified so that's it? That's why because I gained weight.
And he didn't say anything. I know truth hurts.
I JUST NEED AN ADVICE that besides me feeling like I dont want to eat anymore and locked in. Idk should I move forward?
He told me he love me for me and who I am, but I do t feel that way that he does. Truly.
BTW I was a medium and it depends on the clothing brand Im a medium or large. Im 180 pounds.
My husband is also overweight like 300 pounds. But I love him so much and if I can have him everyday I would.!