u/United_Relation3

I mentioned the idea of surrogacy to him, but he’s not on board. He’s worried I might get too attached to the baby and feel like I’ve done something wrong. I’ve done some research, and I know I won’t be attached because it’s not mine. I’m starting to feel like I’m going through a midlife crisis at 29. I’ve been looking for a sense of purpose in life, and helping others through surrogacy would be great. And I think its my calling also, The compensation would also help my family. I would really appreciate any advice, especially from GC.

I’ve booked a call with the agency I like to discuss it on Wednesday with my husband, but he still doesn’t know I’m considering it. How can I convince him to at least hear about it?

Im Torn between this agencies.

1.Brownstone - first call was amazing very informative and does video call not a phone call. so its very good conversation. Always top pick of ip/gc.

2.Egg donor & Surrogate Solutions- A lot of good reviews and many people recommend them.

3. Egg donor & Surrogate Institutions(EDSI)-
   Very good compensation above 70k with lots of benefits but when i call them it feels like transactional.

hopefully some of you can give me advice who to choose and your experience under this agencies as a surrogate.