u/UnleashedArchers

We recently set up TAP to make device setup easier for end users, with less reliance on passwords.

Unfortunately some of the support staff have decided this is a great way to fix devices or set up devices for the end users without them knowing they have accessed the accounts.

As much as I've tried to explain that it shouldn't be used as a way to gain unauthorised access, the use of it has continued.

I don't want to backwards and force back to passwords, but I was thinking that if users had emails sent to them after a TAP activation it would dissuade them from continuing the practice.

So, I was recently officially diagnosed with ADHD/Autism and Alexithymia (also Aphantasia but no actual diagnosis for that). I have been with my wife for 21 years, 13 years married and she's struggling a lot since the diagnosis.

I think in her head she had convinced herself that I would eventually learn to display emotions better. But now with the official diagnosis it feels she is getting shorter at me for things I've always done.

We are going through marriage counselling for my lack of physical intimacy. I don't often feel like hugging of cuddling someone, I don't shake people's hands, it's just something I've never felt comfortable with.

I've tried explaining that this doesn't come natural to me and after 20 years of me being like it, it's a lot of mental exhaustion trying to remember to do this task on top of everything else I have to do. The therapist is often siding with her in every session and sees me as the problem. Even when I raise that I'm dealing with constant negativity and it's bringing my mental health down, she puts it back on me that I'm misreading the negativity as my wife is trying to show how much she cares.

While I struggle with my own emotions, I have no problem reading others, so it's frustrating that I'm having issues with my own emotions used against me as a way to invalidate my own frustrations.