Working on yourself and having good intentions are the worst mistakes you can make.
I was depressed went to therapy, got a job, started working out, against hook up culture, so I looked for something"genuine". I'm tall and handsome, and funny according to everyone I know. I have tried with 3 women. all liked me, all were "willing to build something" but then selfishness begin.
The first broke up with me out of no where after we literally were together laughing. And then I find out she was moving to china and just wanted to dump me like a loose end instead of telling me the truth. (2 months and 13 days down the drain)
Second was so possessive to the point where if i don't spend the whole day giving her attention she lashes out, and she always cancels plans last min (she was cheating I found out) so I broke it off. (3 months down the drain)
Third I was helping her with communication issues, built her confidence up and honestly I kinda was toxic at times because I know it was needed kinda. So whenever When she acts up I ignore her and she falls in line ( I hated doing that but God some people are like pets and you have to treat them like toddlers). I kept helping her work on herseld to the point where she became confident, and actually learned how to communicate (25yo woman btw). So I changed my approach I started treating her like an adult (big mistake) and after too many times where she had a tantrum over nothing, I broke it off.(6 months and 27 days down the drain)
My mental got so bad.I quit my job, and I stopped working out, I'm back in therapy.. my advice stay away from crazies, companionship is so overrated, and you are not "MR Save a Hoe", don't be an idiot like me.. and I can understand now why men go for younger women....
I tried to treat Moroccans in a western way and I paid for it.
Also before judging I have spent, money, time, effort, lost connections because of said women, and I was there when needed. because all I wanted was a soul to want me back in a kind way. I couldn't find love in my family or understanding in friends so I looked for it in a partner.
Positive that came out of this is that I'm the most independent I have ever been and I genuinely do not care to find anyone.