Got called someone else’s name DURING sex. Am i overreacting?
Soooo I’m getting hot and heavy with a guy I’m dating at his house and in the middle of sex he calls me his babymom’s nickname. In. The. Middle. Of. Sex. He tried playing it off saying “i didn’t call you that” (our names are NO WHERE near similar). Right after i confronted him about it. He said “my bad I had just been around her all day, she can’t even do what you do to me!” As if that matters. I was horrified, AND stuck there the whole night because I didn’t drive my car. The man didn’t even roll over, hug me, kiss up, literally nothing. Didn’t even say good morning when we woke up. Now I’m in my head about it, and I can’t stop thinking about how I could possibly be everything a man wants and also be nothing at all because he’s thinking about the last girl while in the middle of sex with the woman he claims to want to impregnate and create a family with is insane to me. Now he’s acting like I’m the problem for being upset, posted a PSA saying he doesn’t give a f*ck, has not texted me back as if I’m the one that fucked up here????? We just can’t come back from that.
Edit: to add, we both have children from previous relationships. None of our kids are babies/infants. I’m 26 and he’s 27.