u/Upper-Spend2275

Not judging, I’m genuinely curious.

If you have wealth, status, and options… why spend weekends in loud clubs instead of settling down?

Is it because clubs aren’t actually about finding a partner? Maybe they’re about status, bottle services, excitement, networking, or simply being seen.

2. When you’re successful, does having endless options make commitment harder? If you always feel like someone “better” is around the corner, maybe settling feels like giving something up.

A guy follows around 2,000 people on Instagram, and a large percentage of them are young attractive women. Many of them don’t even follow him back. His profile is a mix of luxury lifestyle, nightclubs and professional posts.

If you came across someone like this, would you still be interested in getting to know him, or would this be enough for you to move on? Why?

I know a guy in his late 20s who has a pretty polished Instagram. A lot of his content is him showing off a luxury lifestyle (nice trips, expensive restaurants, clubs, etc.) He also mixes in some professional and career-related posts. What I find interesting is that he follows around 2,000 accounts, and a huge percentage of them seem to be young, attractive women. He also has a lot of women following him, but it doesn’t look like all of those women follow him back.

I’m curious what Reddit thinks is going on here.

Is this just someone trying to network, grow engagement, and build a social media presence? Is it an attempt to get attention from attractive women? Is it a common Instagram growth strategy?
Interested to hear different perspectives.