Why do some of the most “spiritually active” people seem to be the meanest?
Something I’ve noticed in the congregation is that some of the people who are at every meeting, out in field service constantly, answer every question, and seem to follow every direction from the Governing Body are also some of the most judgmental, controlling, and mean-spirited people I’ve encountered.
They know every rule, every procedure, and every organizational expectation, but somehow basic qualities like kindness, empathy, humility, and genuinely caring about other people seem to take a back seat.
It makes me wonder: if someone is doing everything the organization tells them to do, but consistently treats people badly, what does that actually say about their spirituality?
Has anyone else noticed this contradiction? I’m genuinely curious about your experiences.