Toni and Joan during the custody battle
This might be a hot take, but Toni was a terrible friend throughout the years and was not there for her many times, but when Joan finally decides to choose herself, she’s seen as selfish. Toni was the only person responsible for her child’s wellbeing, why fire Concepcion when you need full time childcare and can afford it and then get mad at Joan? I think Joan could’ve been a better friend at that time, but she was not as bad as Toni overall