u/Useful_Drive8607

Tese tichangofa. And once you die, you are gone. Nothing else. It does not matter whether people mourn you or laugh/celebrate. You are both gone, and will be decomposed soon. Rich or poor. So why laugh at a person who lived their life to the fullest? Especially when you are a pauper and will likely die a pauper too. All this humility stuff is overrated. It doesn't gain you anything if you really think about it.

Ndati regai ndiuye ndiri ghostie because mune vanhu vanondiziva on my main account and they would probably figure out exactly who i am dating now.

Anyway, people are always saying it is taboo to date your ex's friend what what. I have also learnt that people are hypocrites.

Just after Covid, i broke up with a person I had dated for a while. I knew most of her friends and were cool with them and would hang out with them plenty of times when we were still together. After the breakup, i figured ndozvinetserei zvangu kunotanga kuzvi introducer kune umwe munhu. Approached the friend and we hit it for almost 6 months. Takazorambana zvedu, because handigare pasi.

Anyway, fast forward to 2024, I broke with another girl I was dating, rinsed and repeated the strategy and asked her friend out, we dated for more than a year. Ndobva azondiramba.

Now this is where it gets interesting. Instead of going to different friends' circle, I went to another friend in that same circle. And she is down to play. Taatoone 3 months or so. Fortunately haaite zve Reddit.

Haasi mahure vanhu ava, very professional women. Vanotorova ma brunch aye emabhebhi chete varikurova mari dzavo.

Anyway, what are you guys' opinions on dating friends of your ex's ... or better still (from the other side), exes of your friend? One big bedroom.

And please don't bring that BS yekuti hee so they are not real friends. They are.