Couple sexual needs
So I’m 24M and by Bf is 31M, we have been together for almost 2 years. And 1 year living together. Everytime we’ll see each other we had lot of sex, having in mind we had a long distance relationship and we saw each other every 2 weeks or even further. The first 3-4 months living together, I get. It was like a honey moon. Having sex almost daily, and I consider myself a high sex drive person, on his end. Thru the months this times dropped to once a week or even once every 2 weeks, he started lacking initiative, and that affected my self confidence a lot, he stated it was just winter lack of energy, but Idk, like on my end I feel like I’m constantly even now craving or initiating to have sex, he constantly just stops me or tell me “chill out” if I’m being to initiating, and it’s just been a little frustrating. I understand he works a lot, but so do I, and I’m not doubt full of his feelings, but i just can’t deal with this sexual “frustraition”. Like has this happen that you love each other ? But sexual energy becomes a miss match ?
we have talked about being open, like I’m fine with it, just private casual hookups, but for me it’s annoying falling into details as what he is doing or did with XY person, and same me sharing datails, it turns out that he is not into that, and he actually would like that if he goes out to bars, to be free to make out and men and end up at their places to hookup (while I mind my business at home) and like to me it just feels annoying knowing my bf is publicly showing this “open” behaviors, While I like more the private stuff, and like at the end he just got upset and told me to keep close then, From experience and opinions, what’s it to handle different sexual needs? Is this fair ?