Found the texts between my husband of 12 years and his affair partner
So line the title says I've been married for 12 years together 15 with the same man. I'm 31 and he's 32. The affair has been going on since about June or so. I found out on Saturday. I find just the tiniest piece of their conversation and in it I saw all I needed to see. Him asking her for pictures so he could master bate and her telling him to expose that they were together so that they could be together in the open she is 26. But only after I caught him did he start saying that he was sorry that she meant nothing to him that she was easy she he just liked the attention she gave him. The ridiculous amount of humiliation, heart break and anger I feel right now is unbearable and whoever sees him would I assume that I was the one who had the affair. We have 3 kids between the ages of 6 and 2 , 2 of them have autism and they're the only reason I haven't gone nuclear on this marriage. I've been with him for half my life and I'm honestly feeling so lost right now. I don't know what to do, any advice?