I’m just being a nosey bastard, not gonna pretend otherwise. Anyone else in oak mall today (8th October) about 3.45pm and witness the two women arguing outside JD? I just want to know what their beef was
What the title says really. Husband has admitted he resents me tonight for the behaviour of his family despite me trying to play peace maker with them. He knows it’s an unfair way to feel but has asked me how we can fix it… am I right in thinking this is very much a him issue and there’s nothing I can do?
Context: we have a young child and his family don’t even make effort to visit or check in, has been like this since their birth. I’ve made it clear they’re welcome to the home etc which they’ve acknowledged but they don’t ever come to see child/don’t seem to care enough to ask how they are etc. I think husband is hurt by this (rightfully so) but I don’t see how I could fix it other than physically dragging them to visit or forcing them to care.
Happy to be told I’m wrong and what I can do to make it better but right now i feel like im being held responsible for the actions of others.
TLDR; husband resents me for his family’s lack of effort with our child and wants me to fix it