I (22M) saw a Nude video of a friend (21F) on Reddit. Should I tell her or not?
I'm writing for the first time on this app. So the thing is recently I saw a nude video on a Reddit page (that has a lot of followers), and I think the video is of my friend.
We're not that close friends; it's just that we know each other and used to talk casually sometimes. So recently we haven't talked. I've left her texts on seen because I didn't feel like talking and to be honest, the last 2 time she texted were just asking for money so this time I didn't feel like replying to her, and I also unfollowed her on both Instagram accounts.
But now after I saw the nude video (I'm not sure it's her) I don't know whether I should tell her or not. There's an awkward moment because the last text was her asking for a favour that I ignored.
She lives in Noida I live in Delhi. I don't know how she will react if it's her video (I hope it's not hers). Then I searched the video on Google Lens, and it's also on a few websites.
I don't know what to do.... I don't know much about her current life if she's dating someone or not, how she will react if I tell her that I found it on Reddit, or if she will blame me for it I don't know. I'm scared about how she'll react or how her bf(if she has any) or friend will react towards me. I don't know much about her, I'm overthinking about the consequences, what if it backfires on me.....But also I feel the right thing is to confront her.
Edit : that subreddit posts leaked viral videos of people and so fckin many people follow that page.