Do *most* men actually value a SAHM?
I've been a SAHM for almost a year, finically we think we can swing it until she's 3. However, I'm finding that some men just don't value SAHMs at all, and it's quite alarming. I'm not going to lie and say I have an amazing and supportive husband, because truthfully some days are tough and he does make snide remarks, some of which have been especially hurtful. I just don't understand why some men have such an issue being the sole breadwinner and are acting like allowing their wife to be a SAHM is doing them a favor. It seems like more men these days were raised to put women down. We're not getting divorced but it's definitely made me see him in a new light.
Husbands to SAHMs think it's easy because they get to see their child 2-4 hours a day on weekdays and it's usually the easier part. I'd love to see those who don't value their wife take a full 12 hour shift with no break. For the SAHMs doing this long term with unsupportive husbands, I hope you're stashing away some money in a bank account in your name only, even if it's just to treat yourself without having to ask. This is hard work and no one deserves to feel like they're lesser