If this isn't the right subreddit delete it. Anyways... I've been holding off on trying a spell because while I'm not religious my family is. I mean like witchcraft isn't allowed in Catholicism. So I'm not sure if it'll curse my family or something (I'm only planning to use white magic). And is it bad if I use it on a religious family member like for curing something?
So I got into an argument with my dad about trans people and how they should have the ability to transition because of their dysphoria. Well at some point I said I didn't like being a girl. So he's like why not? Throughout my life he's said sexist shit like, "That's a 'female' thing" or that the woman should defer to the man. So I'm like my life would be easier as a guy as like a way of not saying that I'm sometimes uncomfortable with my body and with how I'm referred to (I'm questioning but I think I'm genderfluid) Anyways he's then like, "Being a guy isn't easy! This one lady k!lled herself because she could take how horrible she was being treated when she pretended to be a man!" So yeah the person he was actually refering to does actual exist but this is still ONE person not the ENTIRE TRANS COMMUNITY. I threw out something like well I'm weaker because I'm a girl (he's literally said that a "female" will never be stronger than a man) Then he's eventually like we can do other things so you don't feel like you don't want to be a girl. I think its gonna come up again so I might as well just say I like girls too and because it's a sin in the bible I'd rather be a boy. I'm kinda pretending to believe in the same religion as my parents even though I don't because I don't really have a choice he'll take my computer away (yeah he bought the computer and he did it to my brother when he said he wasn't Christian) I'm so tired of him saying that, "Everybody is programmed to want to get married to the opposite gender and have kids" I'm asexual so it kinda makes me uncomfortable with that idea. He's also said things like, "You're mother said she wouldn't have kids either and she did," or something like you'll be a "baby machine." It's definitely not a smart idea but I'm so tired of this. I have a feeling both my parents know that I like girls. My mom was asking if my crush was a girl once in front of him so I think she knows. I'm not going to say anything about being genderfluid if I actually do come out I'm just going to say I like girls too so that my reasoning for not wanting to be a girl makes more sense to him. I know it's stupid to come out especially when he's obviously non-supportive so I may or may not actually do it. I would appreciate any advice on what I should do instead of coming out like that so he can stop talking about things like that.