u/Vegetable_Print1602

I actually love flowers, and I used to buy myself flowers all the time because they made me happy… but my husband buys them on days when I’m upset with him or after he’s done me wrong, and now I hate flowers. I straight up told him not to buy me flowers because I don’t like them. I can’t believe I caught myself saying that because I do love flowers it’s just that he made me hate them.
Maybe it’s because when he gives me flowers, it doesn’t feel genuine or from the heart. The flowers always look sad from the grocery store, not like real bouquet flowers. He brings them home and just throws them on the table. We don’t even have vases to put them in anymore. He just leaves them there until they dry out.