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Help me choose a dress?
Which of these 6 dresses do you think are working the most for me?
- The first dress can be customized. I'd take in the sides of the bodice and add a drape to the neckline.
- Photos 3 and 4 are both two piece sets.
- The last two are the same dress. It was surprisingly hard to photography even though I really liked it in person.
Wedding is an outdoor, waterfront, garden party vibe with a mix of modern and vintage charm.
u/VeggiAttack — 3 months ago
Normal for planner consultations?
We've just kicked off our search for a wedding planner and so far it hasn't been what I expected, so I'm looking for a reality check.
Is it normal for planners to not ask questions about our needs and goals until after we've contracted with them? We met with a couple experienced planners and neither of them asked about where we wanted help, what our budget is, or what our vision for our wedding is.
I thought they would have taken more of a lead, given that is the service I am looking for. The next steps also weren't very clear and we haven't received any follow-up (albeit has only been a couple days). I'm starting to get nervous because I wanted to get started asap.
It surprised me that this happened with more than one planner, so I want to get another perspective—are my expectations too high or is this weird?
u/VeggiAttack — 3 months ago