Parents not planning on attending my graduation
Salam aalykum everyone, I need some advice regarding my parents. They were never really perfect I always try my best to be kind to them our of religious obligation but it always felt like they never liked that they had children, they were never really supportive or around emotionally. They always showered us financially but they wouldn't come to any sort of special event. So it may not be a surprise that they weren't planning to attend my graduation either. I should've seen it coming but here I am been crying for the past week about it as if its a shocker. I dont know how I will take care of them at old age when they're showing me so little care now. I dont know what im looking for honestly I just wish my parents were proud of me I worked very hard to get here and theres no one at the end of the line cheering me on.
Id like some Muslims to tell me how you should deal with negligent? Parents, I dont like the western ideals of just dropping your parents cause thats obviously haram in Islam but also its not like they're causing me physical harm that I need to be away from them. I dont know thank you for reading.