u/VeterinarianRare874

Roora questions from Black American-update

I came on here 3 months ago asking if my Roora prices were fair. Background: my wife now is an aerospace engineer from Masvingo and her family had charged $5000 and 6 cows etc

The update is, I married my woman and we had a lovely ceremony. We were on Zoom her family in Zimbabwe. My mother and brother travelled there and were part of the ceremony. I stayed behind with my wife.

But we had a lovely day. I paid the $5000, cows and groceries and they accepted me very well

She organized an event for them, like a party with beautiful decor like it was a real wedding with cakes and beautiful African outfits that matched ours It was amazing

I am officially a Zimbabwean “Mukasha “
And I now know how to clap my hands so they make a sound 👏

Thank you for your help and those that helped me feel confident with the process. You have a lovely culture. Even in our home her culture radiates and I feel amazing being with her. I could go on and on lmfao

When I made the post a few months ago, I got interesting comments on how I know about Masvingo and how I sent out the list in Shona - I am married to a Zimbabwean woman. Why would I not know where she comes from
If I am planning to spend the rest of my life with her and from my understanding, it’s difficult to translate the list to Shona so I pasted it as it was. I just found it interesting why people were shocked by me being invested in Zimbabwean culture.

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u/VeterinarianRare874 — 11 days ago

African American getting ready for lobola

*****Throw away account ****

Hello. I am an African American man getting married to a Zimbabwean young lady. I am 32

Little bit about her

She is an aerospace engineer makes her own money
Already has a green card so she is not in this for papers
27 years old
No kids
Shona from Masvingo

She was always out of zim since she was 15 so she basically raised herself, why do I need to pay the aunties like it says on the list, and a plate doesn’t cost that much

I think she has different experiences that do not add up to the lobola in terms of relatives etc

I plan to do the ceremony in August and her family charged me a total of about $5000 (including the cows clothes etc)

I added the list here. Is this reasonable or I am being overcharged ? This totals to about $5000 at most $6000

Kupinda mumusha. $50
Vhura muromo. $30
Ndiro. $20
Kugara pabench. $20
Chiuchiro. $50
Makandinzwanani. $50
Matekenyandebvu. $50
Mari yedare. $100
Mafukidzadumbu $300
Rusambo. $1500
Dzivamaponda. $100
KUNHONGA
Mari yatete. $200
Mai yemadzimbuya. $50
Mari yevaramu. $100
Rugaba $100
Badza. $25
Danga mombe 6
Mombe yababa. $400
Mombe yamai $400
Rukusha. $25
Rupasa. $10

Hembe dzababa
Suit
Shoes
Socks
Tie
Hat
Jazi
Briefcase
Jug
Plain white blanket
Hembe dzamai
Gumbeze double
Puma
Suit
Hat
Shoes
Jug
Big cup
Java print 6m

GROCERIES
Upfu. 10kg
Rice 4kg
Beef. 4kg
Chicken. 2kg
Sugar. 4kg
Salt. 1kg
Masamba. 500g
Drinks. 1 crate
Milk 2litres
Greenbar. 2bars
Washing powder 2kg
Bath soap. 2
Colgate. 2
Potatoes 1 pocket
Eggs. 1 crate
Mazoe 4litres

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u/VeterinarianRare874 — 4 months ago

African American doing lobola. Is this reasonable?

*****Throw away account ****

Hello. I am an African American man getting married to a Zimbabwean young lady. I am 32

Little bit about her

She is an aerospace engineer makes her own money
Already has a green card so she is not in this for papers
27 years old
No kids
Shona from Masvingo
I plan to do the ceremony in August and her family charged me a total of about $5000 (including the cows clothes etc)

She was always out of zim since she was 15 so she basically raised herself, why do I need to pay the aunties like it says on the list, and a plate doesn’t cost that much

I think she has different experiences that do not add up to the lobola in terms of relatives etc

I added the list here. Is this reasonable or I am being overcharged ? This totals to about $5000 at most $6000

Kupinda mumusha. $50
Vhura muromo. $30
Ndiro. $20
Kugara pabench. $20
Chiuchiro. $50
Makandinzwanani. $50
Matekenyandebvu. $50
Mari yedare. $100
Mafukidzadumbu $300
Rusambo. $1500
Dzivamaponda. $100
KUNHONGA
Mari yatete. $200
Mai yemadzimbuya. $50
Mari yevaramu. $100
Rugaba $100
Badza. $25
Danga mombe 6
Mombe yababa. $400
Mombe yamai $400
Rukusha. $25
Rupasa. $10

Hembe dzababa
Suit
Shoes
Socks
Tie
Hat
Jazi
Briefcase
Jug
Plain white blanket
Hembe dzamai
Gumbeze double
Puma
Suit
Hat
Shoes
Jug
Big cup
Java print 6m

GROCERIES
Upfu. 10kg
Rice 4kg
Beef. 4kg
Chicken. 2kg
Sugar. 4kg
Salt. 1kg
Masamba. 500g
Drinks. 1 crate
Milk 2litres
Greenbar. 2bars
Washing powder 2kg
Bath soap. 2
Colgate. 2
Potatoes 1 pocket
Eggs. 1 crate
Mazoe 4litres

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u/VeterinarianRare874 — 4 months ago