u/Vic69

My daughter was diagnosed with anorexia last year and ended up in hospital due to refeeding syndrome. Thankfully she got out and got through it. Things weren't plain sailing but we were able to manage it. Unfortunately we let her go on the two week trip with her friends recently, and she didn't eat properly. She didn't lose a huge amount of weight but she was pushing back a bit on eating when she came home but it was manageable. Then she was out with her friends a few hits after she came home, it's almost like she was a different person. She was pushing back really strongly and it got worse and worse over the course of four days to the point of screaming and shouting. Running out of the house, refusing to do anything, we asked her saying that she can't even think about making a choice to eat food. She trashed her room repeatedly. We ended up bringing her to an emergency room. Had to drag her into the car which he tried to get out of on the way. The psychiatrist thinks she has OCD alongside the ED. The voices have been getting stronger and stronger to the point of being constant negative voices. She's only 14 and they have her on benzos to try and calm her because she's so distraught. She's now started to say that she doesn't want to wake up anymore. They're talking about putting her on an SSRI. She's now got to the stage in hospital where she's refused 3 meals in a row and they're talking about a feeding tube. I'm so distraught I don't know what to do. Is there anything I can do? Are there any stories of people being this bad and recovering because right now, it looks like there's no hope. I really like the title of this sub, but I apologize if this is not the place to be asking these questions. I'm just trying to get help for my daughter and have some semblance of hope.

*apologies for title misspelling, I cannot seem to edit it.