WIBTA if I confronted my aunt about something she did to my brother and I over a decade ago?
I (29M) and my brother (34M) recently learned from a cousin (46F) that at a cousin's wedding 17 years ago, our aunt (72F) instructed the wedding photographer to leave us out of pictures as she only wanted "real family" to be included. She even asked our mother to hold onto us so we didn't "accidently" end up in too many photos and "ruin them." This isn't shocking to hear, especially as this particular aunt is truly a terrible person and has never liked or even tolerated my brother and I for a whole host of shallow reasons, one of the biggest being my brother and I are adopted. So to her, we will never be "real family" but I'm wondering if I'd be the ahole if I confronted her for what she did all those years ago and exposing her to the extended family or if I should leave well enough alone.