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[M22] Am I wrong for wanting to do this

I went on a date with this guy, I'm 22m and he's 23m. We really hit it off. We went to mini golf, Applebee's, and I paid for dutch after. we even engaged in certain physical activities and really liked each other.

Even before the date he was very adamant about only dating with the intent to marry and I liked that a lot

However after he went home he texted me saying that although he was really into me he felt that with the current state he's in and the fact that his parents don't know he's gay we wouldn't be able to really date date and that I shouldn't really wait up for him. Or at least it would be a long time before we would get another date. And that we should keep in touch.

So I've been trying to "keep in touch" and sparking convos throughout the day and he doesn't really seem interested, keep in mind that he doesn't read them sometimes. I eventually get replies but they're very quick and sparse. I have read receipts on so that's how I know.

So I feel like texting him basically this:

Hey I really like you and am willing to work around your situation but unless you're also putting in the effort to "keep in touch" there's no reason really for me to continue and try to text you.

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u/Visible-Front-7243 — 12 hours ago