u/Visual_Lion7537

I’ve known several cancers and it seems both the men and women desperately seek validation from people who don’t like them or are indifferent to them. They’re more superficial charming and let people talk shit to them and let their guard down. At the same time, the nicer you are to them, the colder and more distant they get. But if you treat them more cold, distant, and surface level they want your attention more. Why??