24 [F4M] #USA - Bonding with lovely lurkers!
Hii!! To blow through the basics, I’m Kate, a petite wasian lady with a soft voice and funny glasses 🤓. Ass men need not apply, but you could call me top-heavy. I have an unopened bottle of sunscreen in my little pickup that I should have used ten times over by now. I’d rather sit with you under a tree than at a bar. A dream of mine is to start a family one day, if I can find the right man to share that life with. I keep a good handle on all my responsibilities and financial shit…and I guess I cuss a lot for a “lady.”
As a partner, I’m affectionate, reliable, supportive, and drama-averse. The more of those we have in common, the better we’ll get along.
Anyway, with that done, it’s time to get real. Nobody likes to lay out their looks and personality over and over again like a car trying to sell itself. It’s boring to try and hit all the items on a list of things that make you an endearing option, but it’s basically necessary in this environment.
Don’t get me wrong, I do want to share all the interesting little details, determine physical attraction, suss out any dealbreakers, act funny, and get flirty! But I’m chiefly interested in your authenticity and character, and it takes time to get a feel for those. I’m looking for men who are willing to be themselves and let time paint the picture as we become closer 🤗❤️
If you feel like forming an honest, personal bond with someone would be more natural to you than playing the speed dating game, you are the kind of man I want to meet. Please consider me an open book if you’d like to introduce yourself, and feel free to tell me why you decided to do so! Let’s see how our connection feels as we get to know each other.
Here are some final road signs for anyone interested in reaching out:
- I love and prefer older men! ❤️
- I’m aiming for devoted long-term relationship with someone who will want me as his confidante, lover, friend, and life partner. If we find that that’s not in the cards, let’s just be friends or part ways.
- I will get bored if the conversation devolves into mostly sexual talk before we’ve had time to bond. Yes, I have a dirty mind, and I won’t ever condemn you for yours. But intimacy of any kind is more enjoyable once we share some trust and deeper understanding, and having impersonal fun would cheapen the connection we’re trying to nurture.