My ex lied about her age just to date me but I dodged a bullet in the end.
My ex lied about her age just to date me but I actually dodged a bullet in the end.
So Im a 25 years old man, a freelancer and I do home tutor too , whenever I came back from work there was always this teenage girl who was always looking at me and her house was just 10 houses away from mine . One day she saw me going inside one of my neighbor house as I teach their daughter so she is my student which was a 12 years old girl.The next day she started hanging out with my student, I dint think of anything and call her in to start the tuition but on the next day my student told me that girl liked me alot and so I was kinda confused as that girl look abit young so I asked my student what was her age to which my student replied she is 18 . At first I dint really believe but I also know some girls who are 18 but looks younger . So we met up the next day as a date ,we sat at a local cafe and start chatting ,she seem so nice and she looked at me with such obsession that I could not resist saying no to her so I became her boyfriend . We dated for around 7 months and she was so obsessed with me that she cut her wrist and wrote my name with a razor , wrote my name all over her dairy and even on her handkerchief , she also waited for me everyday as I came back from work , she always calls me out to hang out , even paid for date and gave me money when I forget my wallet , kisses and hugs , a little intimacy but I never had sex or intercourse with her although she wanted it something in my head kept telling me not to, she even show her whole body on video calls to convince me but I told her maybe After some times , things were going well and we exchange gifts for valentines day and for my birthday but things got abit suspecion on her birthday I gifted her alot of chocolates and other stuff but she told me not to come on her birthday but to give her just the gifts . She Explained her relatives are coming and she is insecure about showing me to them so I agree .
But I was always having a feeling that something was not right but the way she treat me , loves and care about me and all The support I kinda started ignoring all her red flags , she really spoiled me . Some red flags were like she dint let me check her phone one day and the next day she allowed me to check and I think she kinda erase Something, I hear her typing on her phone keyboard while we were on call to which I asked who was she texting while on call with me but she kept denying she dint. So after 6 months, I dropped my phone in a puddle and stop working, I thought of buying new phone but I thought I kinda need to stay away from internet and phone and wanted to live with the nature abit , we stop texting or call for just one month but her house is just 10 houses away from mine and I thought I could just meet her , she was angry that I dint text or call her but I wanted to relax myself staying away from phone and internet , we met up 3 times and almost saw each other everyday like I said house is near but on the last meet up her face kinda looked cold and uninterested and by this point she spoiled me with her love and all the convincing things she did and I was fallen for her now and thats where most girl show their true colour of whether they really loved you or was just seeking attention .I was so worried of losing her I bought a new phone and started texting and calling she dint pick up and replied my text with just few words to nothing and delayed too. I met her on the street and I asked her what happen but she just said Nothing and turn away and left. That night I texted her but she broke up with me and said I lost her . I kinda knew this Type of cheap validation seeking girl existed and realised she started texting other guys and she has a high ego friends circle . I replied her " No , you lost me ." and then she blocked me , I was sad and tears ran down my face , I was confused and puzzled why she changed or was she always like this and played with me but all that love and her angelic behavior and trying her best to make me fall for her made me perplexed , she was the one who was obsessed with me and now she is leaving me . I went back to my daily works and teaching my student and I told my student about the break up to which she revealed something that made my skin crawl and I almost puke right on the spot. My student told me that she is not 18 but was 14 and turned 15 the recent birthday . I was so shocked and scared and shaking , I knew she look too young to be 18 but at the same time her body was like 17 or 18 . She also revealed that she is cut her wrist Before for her ex too , she has a friend circle of ego filled girls who think dating other man and having multiple boyfriends were cool. I scolded my student why dint she told me before and why she betrayed me as I taught her education and Help in her life to be a better student .She was scared Because my ex used to bully her and not to tell the truth and also revealed they study in the same school too.
I was so disgusted and was scared That she turned out to be a minor and played a masked game Just to date me. I could not eat or sleep that night I gag and felt like throwing up as I kept thinking about it, few days after the break up I never texted her and avoided her too , if I see her on street I ignore her ,I went completely silence . But one day she texted my student that she missed me and want me back And will never leave me , she sent my student a picture of her cutting her wrist And told her to show me so I can text her or call her. I called her that night not to get back together or give her chance but to ask alot of question why she lied about her age and even why used her body , self harm and lies to keep me but just as I texted her she started the ego game of replying late or delay and she never replied me. So I thought she is an immature drama driven teenage child and glad she left but oh boy I was wrong , the next day she started uploading edited pictures of her and other boys (two Different boys) on insta And even told my student that a guy proposed her at school and she will say yes , she is doing this so my student deliver the message to me. She even started to insult my student whenever they meet each other at school Because my student supported me this time . I was worried and told my student to complain to principle if she ever do something crazy to her but fortunately she never did anything to my student . when she finally realised She cannot manipulate me or my student she started sending hate messages and insulted me alot . My silence made her angry and her game of seeking my attention was failing too. I realised she never loved me it was just a game she played to lool cool among her friends . It broke my heart that the girl who used to love me so much has change and that she lied about her age to date me. I thought to myself that I dodged a Bullet by not having sex with her and glad she was the one who actually left me . It was all a game played by a 15 years old teenager with unstable mind and bad environment where she grew up that shows the lack of discipline and I also heard she always bunk classes and fails in exams alot , the peer she is associated with and the mindset of thinking all this was cool .
This was a hell of a journey And I am thankful that she came , played and left . The social media has made the young ones of this generation messed up too. Now she stop seeking my attention , I ignore her if I see her and gave her no validation and she evn left my student alone too. I heard she has alot of boyfriends at school and even online .She thought she played me but I escaped , I am finally free and from now on I will do some research about Who ever I will be dating , definitely never dating someone who looks young and want to play chase game fantasy .what do you guys thing what was she thinking on her mind doing all this.? Is it just a game a teenage girl with bad circle like doing seeking validation , jumping from one boy to one man or did she really like me to the point she lied about her age just to date me and she changed later on Because of her circle and the validation from other boys made her not scared to loose me?, The way she treated me and love me almost made me convince the later is true but it does not change the fact that she was 15 and I was played but I dodge the bullet by not reacting when she broke up.
What do u guys think?