marriage is obvious but are there any signs that an unmarried person is in a serious relationship. I’m getting to that age where I’m assuming everyone is either married or almost married. If you’re close to getting married, how do you signal that?
ok so there’s this guy. We’re in multiple group chats with each other but all of them are old. we’re doing the same research and from what I’ve seen, i dont know if I want to marry him or be friends. My brain says marriage because I don’t have guy friends but the gist is that I find him really cool. I’m never physically attracted to anyone I don’t know or unless I see someone in person but he’s not bad looking meaning there’s nothing I’d object to if anyone arranged a marriage with him lol Anywayyyyss, I’m wondering if I should reach out about his research by messaging him directly through his number or if I should request him on insta (it’d be really awkward if we met irl after I pull that move). I rarely have crushes but I can’t get this guy that I barely know out of my head. Somali guys, specifically, which method would you prefer? What if I’m not sure if my interest is purely professional/romantic?