Do you think this is recoverable?
my boyfriend of a year broke up with me (he's tried to for a while like a month but i begged him to stay and work on it and he agreed a couple times before saying that it dinally didn't feel right and he had to do it. he said that hes been feeling like this for a couple of months in the past. he said that he felt like he didn't have freedom to do things he wanted and that i needed to find myself and that he couldn't be the only thing i relied on for happiness. i have plans on working onmyself and loving myself. i am also not banking on the fact that we might get back together but we do go to the same college together and we will eventually see each other. i asked if he thought that we could get back together and he said i don't know probably not. but he isn't closing the door. he said he didn't think i was the right person for him. we had a lot of communication problems. but he said he loved me and still does to the very end. i think he is just very immatture and aviodant as this his first relationship ever. he said he also wants to work on himself but could barely muster up the courage to say that he needs to communicate his feelings better. do you guys have advice, and if you've been in this situation, has working on ourselves to come back to eachother sound like a possibility here or is it just cooked? i am very depressed and just want to get back together. i am aware of my issues. i just would like to know if this sounds recoverable, like he was just really emotional and just did it to breathe but he will miss me and come back. we are no contact for a DAY AND ITS KILLING ME. i can also assure that he's not doing this to be with another girl. its truly he couldn't take the relationship anymore. thats why im wondering if you guys think this is a time heal or as a man he is just done with me