Wife wants me to get a paternity test.
Been together for a long time. Wife had an affair when we were trying to conceive. Her reasons don’t matter, I forgave her and I’m over it. We had a son, as he’s grown up he looks very much like me, but he has brown hair and brown eyes, I am blonde and blue eyed, she is brunette with green eyes. Parents all the same. She’s been fixated on this concept that she thinks the boy isn’t mine, I keep telling her genetics isn’t that simple. She wants me to get a paternity test. I don’t want to.
That’s my son. Regardless.
I worry that in worst case she will view him as a reminder of infidelity and treat the boy differently.
The thought now occurs she may want to reconnect with his father if it isn’t me. Though I think that is unlikely.
Anyway, she’s just been really pressing the issue and it is bothering me that she is so hung up on it.