u/WeakTeaTwo

My partner was standing in front of me naked and she asked something along the lines of "do I arouse you like this" and I was hostest and said no. Almost no naked person arouses me or makes met attracted to them. In my fantasies when she's naked she does arouse me. But face to face it's the datails of someone and touches and words that get me in the mood. But I feel really bad about saying no. I told her today that I see naked people as just bodies but I find HER attractive and pretty wh9ch is the truth. Is this normal or am I overthinking?

P.s. I'm not sure if these questions are allowed, but I feel that other autistic women might get where I'm coming from.