u/Weary-Repeat5051

My GF and I have wanted to get a bit adventurous by having an MFM.

But she is only comfortable at the moment with giving/receiving oral and no vaginal penetration. In time she wants to do DP but with only the other guy in her ass.

We’re wondering what would be the best way to have our first encounter?

1. Go to a club in Berlin and see whether there’s a guy who’d be down for a BJ. This could allow us to have no strings attached. If it doesn’t work out like we hoped we can leave without things getting awkward.

2. Or the second option is arranging it in advance with a guy and it being a bit more structured in a hotel.

How have others started and what option would be best in your view?