She doesn’t believe she did anything wrong
So been with this woman for 3 years, engaged and all that. Last weekend she said she was going on a last minute girls trip out of town about 3 hours to the next city over, no worries have fun and be safe.
Fast forward 48 hours, she’s not where she is supposed to be. Instead of going to the next city over she is 7 hours away and out of state in a tiny town over the border that just so happens to be the same town an ex of hers lives, has been there since day 0 and is still there.
I confronted her (she’s been gone for A WEEK now) she believes she did nothing wrong and insists she didn’t technically cheat and went there to work a job that just so happens to also be at his place of business.
Maybe I’m being dramatic (don’t think so though) but spending a week out of state with an ex, regardless of purpose, and lying directly to my face seems like enough for me to terminate the relationship. She’s right I technically can’t prove they were physically together but c’mon right? Also, hasn’t bothered to apologize either, not that it matters at this point.