Anyone have any good suggestions on gear upgrades, or if I should sell anything to put towards better melee gear, bank is shown in the pictures. I’m not so clued up on the newer gear so bouncing ideas around in my head. Currently seem to be mostly at Duke, Zulrah and also trying to get KQ head, I’m just using melee against these bosses and out DPSing. Any suggestions welcome!
Looking for others opinions on my situation and best course of action, I have read through a lot of posts on here which have been helpful so any words of wisdom or advice would be greatly appreciated
Split for ex around 3 years ago and since day one we have maintained 50/50 with our kids, but it’s been a constant struggle with her way or no way and I’m just at my wits end now I moved in with new partner a few months ago after a phased period to settle the kids into
It and its now taking its toll on our relationship… for example my daughter has had issues when at her mums both blowing up and being hostile to each other typical teenage stuff but its now to the point social services are involved not due to neglect or anything but her mum reported to mental health services, which they deemed daughter okay and passed onto Social services, there is a constant theme of not sticking to our allotted schedule saying she can’t cope and can’t take the kids back etc, making it impossible to plan or do anything on weeks I don’t have them.
we also have a family dog which I agreed to 50/50 back and forth with the kids (I never wanted the dog and still don’t but agreed to try and be civil) he’s been with me full time since she has had housing issues 4 months ago but is now settled she agreed to have him back 50/50 basis in 12 days due to me going on holiday with the kids, she’s now turned around and said can’t take him yet, she’s withholding my daughters passport so she can’t come as she’s been naughty with her.. there’s so many little things expecting me to drop everything and rally around after her - she does have a new partner and a new child with him. I just feel I’m helpless and she has complete control over everything, I’m thinking about getting a child agreement in place and basically saying no contact other than to do with children and forces her to stick to the routine.
I have been too accommodating and trying to not argue due to my worries on her taking the kids and not letting me see them out of spite which was threatened before when I couldn’t have the dog for a period of time. There’s so much more I could put has anyone else experienced this how do you cope? Have you had an official agreement to protect yourself and your kids?