Drunk night, blurry memory, and now I’m panicking what to do ?
I genuinely need outside opinions because I’m stressing badly.
Yesterday after our last exam, our group went partying. Later I went to a friend’s flat, had another beer and slept there for some time. Around 3 AM my friend woke me up and told me to leave because of some security issue in the building, so I went home.
A few hours later, one of my friends called me and asked if I had touched one of our female friends inappropriately because apparently she was upset/crying. The problem is I genuinely do not remember anything like that happening. I was drunk and parts of the night are blurry, but from whatever I remember, I don’t think I did anything.
Now I’m panicking because:
I would never intentionally do something like that.
If I unknowingly crossed a boundary, I want to take responsibility.
But I also don’t want to assume I’m guilty when I genuinely don’t know what happened.
What would you do in this situation? How should I approach this without sounding defensive or manipulative?