Just looking for insight
Hi, I'm just looking for other peoples opinions and thoughts on my current living situation.
I have been living in an apartment for almost a year with two roommates(They are a couple). I have known one of them for years , got a long really well
and jumped at the offer when they asked if I wanted to move in with them as they wanted a new apartment, made it seem like we would all be sharing the common spaces , That i would be welcomed etc.
That I would have a say in what goes on in the apartment.
but since the first month of moving in it has felt the complete opposite, No space for me being made in the fridge or really any of the kitchen , Cameras installed pointing down the hallway/living/ kitchen areas, no warning before they bring guests over when I am home(I don't mind if I'm not home)
for some background , currently I am NOT home often due to my work, and when I am home I am primarily in my room, my separate bathroom, maybe the kitchen 4 times a week. I pay my rent on time every month, and i only do laundry once a week, because i genuinely feel as if they see me as a burden.
They haven't had much discussion with me about any problems , maybe a few reminders at the beginning of basic things like in any house/Apt.
I fear they asked me to move in just to meet the rental requirements and then decided they don't enjoy sharing space as they have been renting on their own for a few years previously.
Am I overthinking?