Single parents - is it fair to request this from FOOC?
My ex (father of our child) blocked me on social media after we broke up and I chose to keep our baby. He was not there for any of my pregnancy up until her birth where he quickly changed his mind but did not come to the birth and has only met her three times in person because he decided to move overseas. I have had to individually send him videos and photos and do calls to mediate between him and baby. I’ve reached breaking point and I feel like I give so much of my energy catering to him and trying to be there for him so he can build a good relationship for his daughter but at the cost of my own mental health. I don’t want to interact with him so closely, he’s in another country partying and living responsibility free while I’ve picked it all up for him and also tried my best to ensure a good connection between them both. Our baby is only 5 months old. I have asked him to unblock me on social media’s and he can get updates about her on there. I’m done doing daily interactions with him, I want nothing to do with him and I’m already doing way more than I should have to considering he barely lifts a finger for his own baby. He couldn’t even change a diaper when we went to visit him. The most I will do now is have a monthly video call between them and the rest he can just see on my stories posts.