You guys I'm at a loss with my oldest hurting my youngest
My 2.5 year old hurts his little sister (1.5). He loves her and they play and make each other giggle. But randomly he'll grab her by the head and shove her over and I do react by yelling because im scared shes hurt and then he tries to hurt her worse as im running over to her. Today we were all having a good night and my husband was feeding them both bites from his bowl and my hubby and I were talking and then he runs over, shoves his hands in her mouth and and squeezes her cheeks so hard that shes bleeding. Its the worst thing hes done to her. We tell him firmly no you cannot hurt sister and put him on the couch alone but he just doesn't seem to get it.... He's a nice boy, I swear and wouldnt do it to his cousins and I love him but his sister has scratches and im so just at a loss on how to discipline because shes getting physically hurt