u/WhereasTiny4693

So, my parents are having a new baby and i'm excited, but also no matter what happens theyre going to say "now we have 3 girls and 1 boy" or "2 girls and 2 boys". So I've never been more compelled to come out in my life.

My concern is that I came out to my mom nearly a year ago and she was basically like "but this could just be a phase because I've heard of people detransitioning" and then never brought it up ever again. My extended family is also very transphobic and like constantly has debates about trans people 💔 If anything goes wrong, I can't move out for a couple years (not that i think they would throw me out, just a highly uncomfortable situation)

I might come out person by person???? My younger sibling already knows, because they're queer. The rest of my family has no clue, except maybe my closeted trans uncle.

Should I come out or not dude 😭😭😭 and how?

Does anyone have tips on how to the music section faster than doing hours of research on composers and such? I typically do flash cardS or note sheets, which ARE helpful, don't get me wrong, but it's very, very time consuming to do substantial research on each composer 😭

I'm in a lot more advanced courses this year, so its getting harder to delegate ample amounts of time to each task.