u/Whole-Combination264

Assalamu Alaikum

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Why isn't it allowed for Muslim women to visit grave yards here. I know some places they do, like kuppiyawatta and thihariya but in colombo why do these men gatekeep our fundamental rights?

My mother is buried at dehiwala mosque graveyard and I want to go pay my respects to her, give me salaams and just be there. And these thabilq uncles won't let us go. Sorry if this sounds harsh but I absolutely loathe these men who make halal, haraam and gatekeep even what Allah himself has allowed.

I am not going to wail and make a ruckus. Just want to bee around my mother. The last place on this earth.

Please those of you brothers who know the religion, do something. Don't let these thabliq men take over and ruin this religion.

If these comes off as harsh or rude, I apologise but I am just mad and frustrated that I am not even allowed to do something which is islamically allowed.

Also this is only in sl. Have friends from other countries who go visit their loved ones.

Edit to add - if someone of you who knows anyone from the dehiwala mosque, can you ask or check why they gatekeeping something which is allowed.

So we got the dreaded pay cut notice, and we have decided to work from our home country. It is too expensive to live here with the remaining amount. especially in a single income house.

Now we have a cat and wanted to take her with us but realised we can't cover the cost of relocation for now.

Reaching out here to the community, if anyone would be able to cat sit her for around a month or two until we settle, save some money, and then fly her out? Will provide the food and litter.

And yes we did look into boarding her, but we are reluctant to leave her in a place with several other cats and also it would stretch our budget. We would rather save that amount and take her back home.

Also she is very docile and timid. Would be ideal in a quiet environment.

I know I am asking a huge favour but hoping there would be an animal lover who would be able to open their homes for a couple months and help us out, until we can take her home to us, In sha Allah.

Really appreciate any and all help ❤️